“The giver brings their own sense of play and psychological themes-that's what makes it feel good.” Okay, so how do I give a a good blowjob?Įven though blowjobs are often about the psychological thrill, there are still many universal dos and don’ts of giving a great BJ. (You also don’t want to tire yourself out, so it’s good having various techniques to switch things up.) And the more tools you have in your BJ toolbox, the more things you can switch to in case you get a feeling that your partner isn’t enjoying it as much as they could. In this explainer, we’re going to provide all we can to help you give the best damn blowjob ever. In addition to speaking with Kerner, was also spoke to Michael Ingber, MD, a urologist and urogynecologist at Garden State Urology and Ashley Cobb, Lovehoney’s sex toy educator. With their tips below, you’ll be giving earth-shattering, toe-curling blowjobs in no time. When you’re watching porn, you may notice that often, the person receiving the blowjob starts completely erect and the blowjob giver immediately downs his penis, sucking as hard as possible. “Even if he's hard at the commencement of fellatio, don't assume it's a full erection,” Kerner says.
